Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Purgefest 2010: so far a resounding success!

I'm a happy girl these days. I admit it: I like to get what I want and fortunately, things are unfolding just as I had hoped.

For those of you new to this blog, a couple of months ago I quit my job, got rid of most of my possessions, gave up my fab luxury apartment, sold my 14-year-old car and bought a new one and told my boyfriend I'm leaving Las Vegas to spend the summer with my family and friends in upstate New York and hoped he'd still be there for me when I returned.

I purged everything that no longer brought me joy. I gratefully released circumstances in my life that had run their course. I put a treasured relationship on hold. I shook the Etch-a-Sketch of life and crossed my fingers that the next picture I'd create would be a pretty one and not a scrambled mess.

I took a risk. So far, it's paying off.

Since I initiated Purgefest 2010, I laughed my ass off during a 12-day cross-country trip of a lifetime with my sister/best friend. I savor every minute while in the company of my daughter and son. I hold my beautiful infant granddaughter almost every day. I'm able to joke with my 11-year-old grandson before he gets too cool for granny humor.


I'm enjoying the Albany music scene, and have seen bands in a coffeehouse, the back room of a downtown bar, in the backyard of a watering hole in a tiny hamlet, and on the banks of the Hudson River.


I watched with pride as my son-in-law played with his band, and will practically burst next Saturday night when my daughter plays her first gig since giving birth 2 months ago.

My dear friends Tim and Susan have extended me an open-ended invitation in their country home.


I feel like we're a bunch of college kids again, sharing a house together. I am filled with joy as I listen to Tim play his guitar on the deck and watch them cuddle on the couch after 31 years of marriage.

Last Friday I started a technical writing job that will last through September--perfect timing for my return to Las Vegas. It took me two weeks to find that gig. They offer benefits, a 401-K, paid life insurance and an hourly rate that's higher than the job I gave up. My co-workers are awesome.

My relationship with Mike is stronger than ever. Forget "out of sight, out of mind"; absence has made our hearts grow fonder.

The moral of the story is, don't be afraid to take risks. If you're not happy with the way your life is going, take the steps you need to take to change it. Figure out what you want, what will make you happy, and for God's sake, just do it.

I've gone to two wakes in the past five days. Enough said.

10 comments:

Tara said...

Glad to see you're enjoying your time in Albany and that you found a job so quickly :) Sounds like it's gonna be a great summer for you!

Julie said...

Seriously. I just want to be you when I grow up.

All I've managed to purge is my ex and some clothes that didn't fit anymore. Let's face it, when my life exploded around me, it was much different. I guess when you're the one setting off the detonation on your own, it makes a huge difference doesn't it? I need to try it your way this time!

I'm so glad this has been everything you hoped and more. I knew it would be. You are one of the most self confident and self assured women I know, and you KNOW how to make things happen.

That should be your next book. "How to blow up your life and be happy about it". LOL

Danica said...

Way to go. I'm so glad that everything is turning out better than expected. That's the cherry on the ice cream of life. Enjoy every minute of it. You're my hero. :-)

Kellee said...

Wonderful to hear you are enjoying yourself!

I heard lyrics the other day that resonated with me, they seem like a good fit here... "If you want something you gotta chase it. It's your life, you can live it or waste it".

Mandy's Life After 30 said...

I'm so glad to see you so happy Linda! You deserve it. How wonderful and inspring you are for taking these leaps of faith and these leaps across the country too. After I read your book, I wondered about how your future relationships would be.... I hope this one continues to make you happy and fulfilled. Best wishes and virtual hugs!

K A B L O O E Y said...

Wow, what a fantastic post. I'm so happy for you. Sounds like you are creating your own good fortune by being bold and taking chances. That's the best inspiration, so thanks! And hug the grandkiddos tight, and keep rocking on.

Barbara said...

You are my inspiration :)

Lorna said...

You, Linda Lou, are my inspiration. I love your life--and your courage! Walking your talk. Thank you :)

Joanna Jenkins said...

That is outstanding! I am thrilled for you. Those were some major changes and having so many things work out is the icing on the cake. YEAH YOU!
Enjoy every minute.
jj

Chocolate Covered Daydreams said...

I love how you took the risk! Will you stay past summer or is your heart tugging you back to Vegas? Is your sister purging too?