tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post6187034586896099696..comments2023-08-02T05:44:41.504-07:00Comments on Linda Lou, live from Las Vegas!: "I'm Problematic, You're Problematic"Vegas Linda Louhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17653067016683159930noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-73442552492322288892011-07-24T22:38:03.862-07:002011-07-24T22:38:03.862-07:00Oh my dearest Linda, I am so sorry that not only d...Oh my dearest Linda, I am so sorry that not only do you have to deal with typical stressors in normal life but, to find out a good friend compares their relationship to yours and most likely the rest of the world's as well.<br />After 17years with my husband I have learned absolutely NO two relationships are created the same. We all have to choose what we are willing to give up and what we are willing to give to be in a relationship; that goes for friendships and family as much as it does for marriages, and boyfriend/girlfriend. <br />I think it boils down to know-it-all syndrome. What works for one couple does not work for another and all relationships should be between the two people involved only. <br />I have heard some stupid shit while being married from single people and I laugh it off because when it comes down to it which one of us is practicing what we preach...<br />It's ok, you do what works for you and if your friends can't support you through your ups, downs and relationship faux- pa's than they aren't your friends and who needs that burden. xoxoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-53690673929211022132011-07-19T18:32:18.480-07:002011-07-19T18:32:18.480-07:00Loving someone can never be wrong. Some of my most...Loving someone can never be wrong. Some of my most rewarding relationships have been with 'problematic' people. Frankly, non-problematic people are boring. The trick is finding the right distance. God knows there are some folks I love to death but I couldn't live with em.AgSweephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01802088558358326973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-8575575383317276242011-07-19T11:13:43.628-07:002011-07-19T11:13:43.628-07:00I agree with Debbie . . .this friend doesn't s...I agree with Debbie . . .this friend doesn't sound like a true friend. That was a hurtful statment to make. <br /><br />I'm a long married person and would NEVER say any of the 7 stupid things to a single person. EVER. <br /><br />You have earned the right to do whatever the hell you want to do. Why should anyone judge?Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17846082820004153424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-78107122801877266482011-07-17T23:16:20.180-07:002011-07-17T23:16:20.180-07:00Really, Kablooey, when are you going to make an ho...Really, Kablooey, when are you going to make an honest woman of yourself?<br /><br />Debbie, you're a freakin' KOOK! We must be related. I was born in El Paso, so maybe...Vegas Linda Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17653067016683159930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-75743332467544992092011-07-17T21:17:09.301-07:002011-07-17T21:17:09.301-07:00... and i just read your 7 stupid things you shoul...... and i just read your 7 stupid things you should never say to a single person and I AGREE WITH EVERY SINGLE ONE. SEE! YOU'RE MY SISTER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER. I cannot tell you I hated hearing that shit. Especially "you're too picky". WTF is that supposed to mean? Cause you won't give anyone who repulses you half a chance that means you're too picky???? I never got that one. Either someones does it for you or they don't. PERIOD. Never waste time one someone that you know you aren't attracted to. What's the point?! Life is too short to dance with ugly men. <br /><br />SMOOCHES!<br />DebDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14480522255028503327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-59991879929588739392011-07-17T21:11:15.429-07:002011-07-17T21:11:15.429-07:00Linda, I do not for one minute believe you are a p...Linda, I do not for one minute believe you are a pain in the ass persnickity difficult person ... mostly because I identify with every thing you say and I am just like you. HONEY, you're NORMAL. And you're absolutely right. Every paragraph, every sentence. I was there too ... I was single til I was nearly 40 and I don't think your "friend" sounds very friendly. There was a dig in her statement and that's NOT NICE. She doesn't sound supportive or caring or on your side and that's what a friend should always, always be. ON YOUR SIDE (unless you're a serial killer). So here are my words of wisdom, you keep doing what you're doing, looking for what turns you on physically/mentally, etc., and hanging in there, or checking out for a while and not looking. YOU'VE EARNED THE RIGHT TO DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT WITH WHOEVER YOU WANT TO DO IT WITH AN I SAY EFF YOUR FRIEND. <br /><br />This is why I love you so much cause you crack me up and make me feel WAY OKAY CAUSE WE'RE THE SAME. I get annoyed when someone breathes too loud LOL! FOR REALS.<br /><br />you ROCK girl!<br /><br />XOXO<br />DebDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14480522255028503327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-68640342914132566972011-07-17T21:07:33.188-07:002011-07-17T21:07:33.188-07:00Ooh. Weddings with nosy aunts who watch yet anoth...Ooh. Weddings with nosy aunts who watch yet another younger cousin (and they're all younger) get hitched and ask "so, when are you gonna tie the knot? You next? Having the kid six years ago didn't stop the comments. Now that a lot of the cousins are onto their second marriages, the commends should abate, but no.K A B L O O E Yhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12995547356428809262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-21262024428485458782011-07-17T16:30:17.576-07:002011-07-17T16:30:17.576-07:00Lisa, you are always supportive and in exactly the...Lisa, you are always supportive and in exactly the right way.<br /><br />Jamie, I can't tell you how many dates I've had over the years where I sat there fantasizing over all the crap I could be watching on my DVR. I agree, it's rare to find someone who holds your interest, and add physical attraction on top of that and the odds diminish astronomically.Vegas Linda Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17653067016683159930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-53447500346915302852011-07-17T02:57:56.800-07:002011-07-17T02:57:56.800-07:00AWESOME post. Seriously. You are not some dim-witt...AWESOME post. Seriously. You are not some dim-witted woman that will go to any length to find/hold on to a man. I too, would have been insulted.<br /><br />I have been in marriage and relationship limbo for the past two years...separated. Now I am reconciling with the H, mostly because I find no reason not to. How is that for LOVE...LOL. But in two years...TWO years, I found no one that even remotely kept my interest for longer than an evening. A BORING evening. So...I say, whatever gets you through the night. Seriously. We all do the best we can for ourselves and those we love each and every day. You have to follow your heart and mind...and make decisions based on that, as well as decades of living. As a new friend, I support you in everything or anything that makes you happy.<br /><br />Have a great Sunday. :)Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18085622205448586156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4043113139515346307.post-32718512328312278552011-07-16T16:49:57.904-07:002011-07-16T16:49:57.904-07:00I hope I am not one of those annoying married peop...I hope I am not one of those annoying married people whose advice I offer that you take insult with - because, my dear friend, I'm here for you no matter what choices you make! I love your loyalty to those you love, that's what makes you such a precious friend. Now, I'm off to read your post on what not to say to single people and heaven help me, I hope I don't find one of my quotes in there! :-)Lisa Gioia-Acreshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515573279109105145noreply@blogger.com